I believe it is time as a people, especially the men. That we man up and stop with the phony presentation of ourselves. The whole insecurity thing has to stop. Do you need dyes to take the gray out? What about wigs (sorry) toupees to hide your baldness? Really, Really? Are we that insecure as a nation that we need all that garbage to cover up the real us. Ladies what does that say about you, if you are attracted to a man who uses that crap to make himself look good? How phony are you being? Definitely not being honest with yourself or to him. If you really love him he shouldn’t need to present himself that way. Hey!! If you need to keep up an image that is not the real you to keep your woman. Maybe, just maybe she’s not worth keeping. By the way this works the other way around too!!!