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Frustrations with assumptions

Presume, assume, think, whatever you want to call it.  I get so sick and tired of people assuming they know what I think or how I feel just because we work/live together.  You know who I am talking about, those people, I work with one now, I lived with one before.  They are the one person that after hearing your opinion try to tell you, you don’t think like that.  Maybe you are ranting and raving trying to get something off your chest.  They’ll say something like, “I know you Ray and you’re not like that”.  Well, you don’t know me from Adam, and if you did you wouldn’t try telling me what I feel.  That just makes me even more irate.  With  my kids, my grandkids, and that special someone, being the exception.  I am not here to coddle and baby you.  I refuse to sugar coat my life or my feelings for anyone.  I feel my purpose on this planet is to keep people aware of life and their true functions.  I am the rubber crowbar that some people need, to pull their heads out of their butts!!  So if it seems like I am coming down a little harsh, well, that’ s the way I am.  On that note, I can be the most pleasant person to deal with, work with, or the most unpleasant person in the room.  If you can’t do me the justice of getting to know me and just want to assume you do, well, screw you.  Just because we work together, or share the same residence doesn’t mean you know what is going on inside my head.  So don’t presume to tell me that I don’t really feel this or that emotion because…… you don’t know.  Oh yeah, that bit about when you assume you make an ass out of u and me, well that’s a bunch of crap. The only person being made an ass out of  is you.

About Bigboomer

Hello, first of all I would like to thank you for visiting my blogsite. I am going to tell you a little about me. My name is Ray, I started writing back in high school. Every once in a while I would come up with a few ideas and would write them down. Most of which became poems others became short stories. Some of my inspirations are of the heart, some of them come from the thoughts of the day. You will see, as you browse threw my site my poetry is about as diverse as you can get. I hope that as you read them some will have you thinking of love, while others will make you feel sorrow. I would like some of them to set you off to an adventure. Finally, I have some poems that may make you hungry. I do have some inspirations that just plane turn into ramblings or rants as, if you read in here, you will see. I have managed to get two books published so far, the first one is titled Pathways, it may be found at xlibris.com/RayBohdan.html. there you can view a couple of excerpts form the book. The second book is Mingling Hues of My Mind it is at publish America A little bit more about me. I am fifty-one years old I have three children, Rainney, Elisa, and Anthony and two well, actually, three grandchildren Raeanne Marie, Graycee, and Amaya. I guess I could go on, but then I am afraid this will come out sounding like a dating profile. Part of my site will be dedicated to my poetry, I plan to break it down into different sections and organize it by type/style. Another section of this site will be dedicated to my blog it will be about my rants/thoughts of the day. These will vary from political, to personal, to comical. I will talk about most anything and everything that I feel may be of interest to someone. I also will devote a section to some of my favorite recipes with hints on how to capture his/her heart by winning their stomach. My favorite foods are Italian and Mexican, but this section will not be limited to those two types. I do believe however, that the most important part of my site will be the dedication pages. These will be to memorialize special loved ones and friends, as well as thank those that have made purchases of my afore-mentioned book. This is exactly what you think it is. A way for me to sell my self as a writer. Publicly get my words and thoughts out into the world. Please believe me when I say that this in no way demeans or diminishes my passions for the people and the love of which I have written, and will continue to write. I trust that once you read my poems you will feel the love i have felt, the pains I have been through, and the joys of life itself. Once again I thank you for stopping by please enjoy.


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