It is an awful feeling when it seems the only time you can grasp anyone’s attention is when you get angry. As long as you stay passive and quiet you feel as if nobody notices you exist. You may even feel as if the world is surrounded by a giant one way mirror. You just happen to be on the wrong side looking in. You appear to be watching life pass you by and no one knows you are there. How do you express yourself without looking self-centered and egotistical? How do you let your love one’s know how you feel without hurting their feelings? The hardest part, express yourself without putting your family and friends in a position where they feel they have to take sides. For me it is not about trying to influence someone to pick one side or the other. It is all about getting my true emotions and feelings out there. This way some time later on down the road, should I choose to change things up, people aren’t too stunned by the choices I may make.