I am sorry to those of you who don’t understand this. I try not to be narcissistic, however, I do believe that all of us are self-serving at one time or another. For some of us it is a matter of keeping up on ourselves so that we are able to be there for others. Whether that be loved ones, strangers, or whomever needs us. It pains me that for most, it is all about me, me, me, and how can people be better for me. One thing I really hate is people talking about how they feel others need to get over their self pity while they drink theirs away. I have stated it before and sure I will again. I am not a cry baby and do not really want to listen others whining about themselves. No!! this does not apply to those with serious problems. It is my opinion that most people who do whine about themselves have no real problem. They are just wallowing in the a fore-mentioned self pity they think others should get away from.