Here it is: You have ultimately found “the one”. You know deep down they are the perfect match for you and you are determined to show them that you are the best person to win their heart. You make them promises, you do what ever it takes to show them they are always on your mind. Suddenly you realize that you have won the very heart you have yearned for. All those times you wondered if someone else had a chance to steal your thunder and your love, are over. The two of you turn out to be as perfect as two people can be for each other. Life seems to be moving along just fine. However, there are moments when you speculate about the possibility of being taken for granted. Maybe your love is too comfortable in their place. With all the promises you made, things you have done. You start to think they are too relaxed about you.
Well, I have one thing to say to you…… for shame!!! Are you feeling neglected? Are you feeling left out? ask yourself these very important questions. Is there anything to leave you out of? Are you being included as much as humanly and emotionally possible? If the answer to these questions is yes, than you need to stop your narcissistic whining and get back to being the one love you promised to be. Life can be enough work without straining relationships with a me me me attitude. Things aren’t always going to be rosy. The tough times can be made to feel easier with the right person by your side. Don’t screw it up by being selfish.
DISCLAIMER: Commitment can be a scary word. Be willing to give more than you expect to receive.