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Boomer’s Ramblings “Trust”

For the very same reason it may be hard to earn, it can also be hard to give. Especially if there have been events in ones life that has/have left scars on ones emotions.

The more trust a person shows, the more they expect. Once it is broken, the levels can drop. It may become hard to show more trust than one has received. Fear steps in and that may lead to a lack of trust in others.In some cases it may be undeserved.

The problem is if you show a lack of trust in some way, for some reason. You make it hard to earn it. Standard thinking seems to be, if you suspect someone of doing you wrong, you have probably been disloyal yourself.

Problem: It appears to me, even the most trustworthy person has a hard time showing trust once they feel they have been rused.

It can turn into the ultimate battle of wits with yourself. If you feel you cannot trust your partner. It may be because deep down you know you are not to be trusted.

Solution?: I say trust in others as you would have them trust in you. If they blow that faith then move on with yourself and your emotions.

I think this will make a good theme for my nest radio show. blogtalkradio/Ramblinman It will air at 9:30 am pst. Wednesday morning. If you wish to call in and comment, debate, or even change the subject the number is 323-443-7258

About Bigboomer

Hello, first of all I would like to thank you for visiting my blogsite. I am going to tell you a little about me. My name is Ray, I started writing back in high school. Every once in a while I would come up with a few ideas and would write them down. Most of which became poems others became short stories. Some of my inspirations are of the heart, some of them come from the thoughts of the day. You will see, as you browse threw my site my poetry is about as diverse as you can get. I hope that as you read them some will have you thinking of love, while others will make you feel sorrow. I would like some of them to set you off to an adventure. Finally, I have some poems that may make you hungry. I do have some inspirations that just plane turn into ramblings or rants as, if you read in here, you will see. I have managed to get two books published so far, the first one is titled Pathways, it may be found at xlibris.com/RayBohdan.html. there you can view a couple of excerpts form the book. The second book is Mingling Hues of My Mind it is at publish America A little bit more about me. I am fifty-one years old I have three children, Rainney, Elisa, and Anthony and two well, actually, three grandchildren Raeanne Marie, Graycee, and Amaya. I guess I could go on, but then I am afraid this will come out sounding like a dating profile. Part of my site will be dedicated to my poetry, I plan to break it down into different sections and organize it by type/style. Another section of this site will be dedicated to my blog it will be about my rants/thoughts of the day. These will vary from political, to personal, to comical. I will talk about most anything and everything that I feel may be of interest to someone. I also will devote a section to some of my favorite recipes with hints on how to capture his/her heart by winning their stomach. My favorite foods are Italian and Mexican, but this section will not be limited to those two types. I do believe however, that the most important part of my site will be the dedication pages. These will be to memorialize special loved ones and friends, as well as thank those that have made purchases of my afore-mentioned book. This is exactly what you think it is. A way for me to sell my self as a writer. Publicly get my words and thoughts out into the world. Please believe me when I say that this in no way demeans or diminishes my passions for the people and the love of which I have written, and will continue to write. I trust that once you read my poems you will feel the love i have felt, the pains I have been through, and the joys of life itself. Once again I thank you for stopping by please enjoy.


One thought on “Boomer’s Ramblings “Trust”

  1. I find it easy to place my trust in someone and letting them know that I do because I don’t like the idea of being suspicious all the time. I want to believe that people are deep down good-natured and considerate – at least I will give them an opportunity to be.

    Posted by ccdoh1 | 10/30/2012, 3:47 am

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